Self-Love for Wise Women

Stop Putting Yourself Down, Feel Mighty Confident, and Be a Spiritual Badass

What if everything you’ve been told about Self-love so far was a lie?


“I’m not good enough.” 


How many times have you said that to yourself? 


Probably every day of your life -- if this describes you.



  • question your worthiness, feel stuck in perfectionism, and afraid you’ll never be good enough to be loved & accepted.

  • self-sabotage when it comes to manifesting your dreams and desires, you often stopping before you even begin.

  • compare yourself with other women and secretly believe that they are so much better than you because they have it all.

  • doubt your own ability to experience a truly loving intimate relationship that actually lasts. 

  • feel meaningless in your job, like you’re drifting through life without being connected to your power and purpose.

  • are out of control with self-sabotaging behaviors such as over-eating on those chocolate-cinnamon almonds from the self-serve aisle.

  • depend on love and approval from others to feel good about yourself, which rarely comes, so you don’t believe you’re worth it.

  • settle for less and accept mere crumbs instead of true connection in your friendships and spiritual community.

  • bend over backward to please your non-committed boyfriend but feel desperate because he puts you down when you’re emotional.

  • run on unconscious fear and guilt, feel stressed out, behind schedule, and like you’re never doing enough in your business.


Even worse…


You know that if you keep playing small, people will never recognize your true greatness.


While your friends are out partying, you’re home alone journaling about how you could become a more loving girlfriend. 


One day you’ll be an old, wise woman thinking, “Gee, I’ve wasted my best years being controlled by my inner critic! I wish I hadn’t been so hard on myself...” 


I get it. Because I was you. I was my own worst enemy --

full of self-doubt, insecurity, and fear.

The good news is that you don’t have to wait until you’re 91 years old to tap into your inner Wise Woman.


She’s already here for you, right now. 


I call Her: your Big She.


She is the biggest, wisest part of you, your feminine Soul and your inner guide when you’re confused in your choice between fear and love.  


Once I’d built a strong relationship with my Big She, everything changed.


She is the true Self that loves you unconditionally, no matter what storm is raging in your life. 

Now, I feel connected to Self-love 99% of the time.


As soon as I “lose” the connection, I have tools to bring myself back into alignment with Self-love and inner peace. 


The Big She is your missing piece in the puzzle of feminine empowerment.


You can’t fake Self-love by pep-talking yourself in front of the mirror every morning -- you have to embody it to fully feel it.


Let’s face it: nobody cares how many times you double-tap motivational “girl-power!” quote-cards on Instagram -- if you can’t feel deeply loved from within, your mind will always convince you it’s all a lie. 

When you’re fully connected to Self-love, your life looks like this. You...


  • know who you really are, the awareness of your inherent worthiness outshines any of your ego’s self-doubt and insecurity.

  • have a clear vision of your dreams and desires and you fearlessly pursue them with trust and ease, knowing you’re guided.

  • find joy in the company of other women and wish them the best, knowing that their success and happiness is yours.

  • thrive in your romantic relationship -- being with your intimate partner lifts you to even higher heights. 

  • embody your life’s purpose every day, knowing that your true purpose here is to be and give love.

  • feel in control of your behavior, you’re no longer run by your addictions and ego’s need for instant gratification. 

  • love and accept yourself no matter what others are saying or thinking about you, it’s enough to approve of yourself.

  • aim for your highest potential and never stop joyfully expanding into the next biggest version of you.

  • care for yourself and know how to meet your own needs, so that you can give to others comes from a place of abundance. 

  • are driven by joy and inspiration, knowing that you’re right on schedule while trusting in divine timing. 


If this sounds too good to be true, trust me when I say that this is not only possible for you but inevitable.


Sooner or later, your Big She will guide you back into Her loving arms.


This is your true homecoming. 


The only question is -- how fast do you want it to happen?


You can spend years or even lifetimes in unnecessary mind-suffering, or you can say “Yes!” to Her right now and feel happy sooner rather than later.  


All you need is the know-how to get you into alignment with Her, so you can experience great shifts towards more Self-love today. 


This is why I created Self-Love for Wise Women -- to provide you with the tools (which I use daily) to overcome fear, insecurity, and self-doubt so that you can become the spiritual badass you really are. 


This course is unlike anything you’ve ever done

It facilitates a real and lasting transformation by providing you with the tools you need to create an intimate relationship with your deepest, wisest self.


Once you’ve built a loving connection with your biggest Self and the Universe, Self-love will feel like sipping margaritas on the beach. Under a sun-structure. With your hot new date massaging your feet. 


Are you ready to craft that authentic relationship with love for the rest of your life?

Here's how each module breaks down


Module 1: You'll discover a whole new, spiritual perspective on Self-love that moves away from a mainstream understanding of the concept which might be completely new to you.

You'll leave this lecture with encouragement to get to practice love to yourself immediately with a hands-on She-practice and step-by-step instructions. 

Module 2: You'll dive head-on into exploring who you really are beyond the ideas and labels you usually use to define yourself. Shifting your perspective to your true identity will help you feel empowered and confident. 

This module encompasses a powerful She-practice for self-soothing that you can use any time you feel self-doubt, anxiety, or worry. 


Module 3: It's time to meet your biggest, wisest Self -- your Big She. You'll learn more about Her function in your life and how to use Her as your inner guide back to (Self-)love. 


A powerful guided audio meditation for the She-practice will help you establish your first intimate contact with your own Big She. 


Module 4: You'll understand how you, growing up, moved your feeling awareness away from your loving essence building a personality structure to help you survive.


In the She-practice, you'll allow yourself to be showered by the everlasting love your Big She has for you and that's always available to you. 


Module 5: You'll begin to see how your ego leads you towards self-hate, self-sabotage, and self-judgment. Plus, the one key variable that'll liberate you from this inner war forever.  

The journaling-practice in this module will teach you a simple hack to help you shift your perception from fear to (Self-)love.

Module 6: Discover a whole new understanding of what surrender really means, and get the scoop on how I manifested my dream husband by trusting and surrendering to my Big She.

You'll also learn my all-time favorite prayer for spiritual surrender which I use every single day. 

Here’s exactly what you’ll get


  • 6 downloadable video lectures 

  • 2 guided audio meditations 

  • A beautiful workbook to follow along

  • Transcripts for all the meditations 

  • She-practices at the end of each lecture 

  • Expert interviews to broaden your knowledge



"This program has been truly transformational for me"

The teachings are spot-on and easy to follow. I felt deeply seen, and Nadja’s ability to deliver the message is great. It was new for me to meet my Big She and to receive Her guidance, but it's *so* good. It has not only helped me feel more at home in myself but also to navigate through times of big life-changes. I'm deeply grateful, Nadja has helped me have a deeper trust in my intuition and wisdom. It has helped me relax into my feminine softness, pleasure, and stability within. I can balance my feminine and masculine much more now. I draw on these teachings every day. It is something I wouldn't want to live without…I highly recommend this.

- Lærke Andersson

"Nadja has a beautiful vision"

Her dedication to giving space and voice to the feminine is emanating through her gentle presence. She guides deep and meaningful meditations and has an open and explorative approach to feminine spirituality. - L.E.

This is what happens when you enroll

  • You’ll receive an email confirmation with a link to your new Teachable account 

  • Access all the course content immediately and download it to your desktop 

  • Start at once and proceed at your own pace, this is a completely self-guided course

  • You'll get lifetime access for as long as the course is available on the internet


"I got so much value from this course" 

I loved all the practices, they were extremely transformational and healing for me, and the meditations were fantastic as well. I especially loved the meditation of meeting my Big SHE. Nadja transmits so much love and devotion, she really walks her talk, and I felt her heart and care for all of us. Highly recommended! -Gerrie Holloway


"This has helped me so much" 

I'm a busy mom and don't have much time for myself or my spiritual practice. That is why this course has helped me so much - I had scheduled a time to connect deeper with my core and I felt so nourished by these moments. I love how this course has also helped me establish a daily meditation practice. Thank you, Nadja, for creating this! - Nathalie

"Nadja is a skillful and deep truth-teller"

She leads her students with clarity and compassion to finding balance and a solid connection to their own inner guidance. Nadja is someone close to my heart who will lead you to trust your Source of truth and power inside. - Ingunn Tennbakk

Your investment into yourself

One payment of 

€ 99


(Note: VAT will be added if you live in an EU country)

Enrollment is 100% risk-free

If you should for any reason decide that this course isn't right for you after all -- no problem. You'll get a full refund if you ask for it within the first 7 days of your initial purchase. 


The only thing I'm asking is that you can demonstrate that you've actually tried the course (watched the videos, done the exercises and meditations, etc.) 

 This course will radically transform your life 


Once you've invited your Big She into your life, you cannot forget about Her again. The powerful imprint of Her love for you will stay with you and change your perception of yourself forever. Once the seed is planted, you can no longer ignore the truth of who you are. 

This process is inevitable -- you will wake up and realize Her love sooner or later. The only question is this: how fast do you want this to happen? You can spend a few more years or even decades in self-loathing, or you can connect and be happy now. The choice is yours.

What do you choose -- fear or (Self-) love? 

About Nadja Eriksson

Nadja is a writer, mentor, and co-author of the forthcoming book Awaken Your Big SHE - A Pleasurable Wake-Up Call for the Feminine Body. Her mission is to help you create an intimate relationship with your biggest, wisest Self, so you can experience unconditional love, freedom, and joy from within. She's spent the past 20 years studying, training, and practicing personal development, spirituality, and conscious sexuality. She's also a trained Zen Coach, an approach to life coaching that builds on presence and awareness, and has been counseling clients for over a decade. After years of nomadic living out of two suitcases, she now lives in Berlin, Germany, where she likes to read lots of books, walk along the canal, hang with girlfriends, and enjoy date-nights with her Swedish husband Daniel.

© Nadja Eriksson 2012-2020